Humanity shares common experiences that many times due to life style forgets that have more similarities than differences. A proof of this is Decisive Moments . Yes, moments in plural because this is a repetitive patron in our lifes as human beings. Those little, short but very important moments in life when you know something is about to happen or change. You know things won’t be the same since that instant. This seconds or minutes  seem  to be eternal and you feel that time froze into space for a small period.

Many things occurs in  your head , depending on what is your structure of thinking , it is how the pros, cons are being weight into different variables and are represented in your head in different forms .For example if you have a very structured mind , a list of mathematical equations might start appearing in your head; or a list in a yellow paper doing the old school procedure of adding in one side of a column the positive things that might happen and in the other side of another column the negative ones, all of this by handwritten letter in pen  ; if you have a more creative inclination images might start flashing intro your mind and you might start seeing the different scenarios like in a movie ,a photography or a paint of many colors, dimensions,figures and styles.

Whatever the way this trans-formative experience happens , you know things are about to be altered for good or the worst. And maybe you think that whatever the outcome might be you are willing to damage or make better your future for that little instant that you are about to live.

Have you ever had ten perfect minutes with a stranger? I say this quantity,because i think is the right amount of time to make you think of a lapse where you can have a short but yet insightful conversation with someone.

It is that moment in life when without you knowing it ,without you having an expectation ,boom! Et voila , life decides to give you a little gift and put you in a situation when you start talking with a stranger and start sharing a moment. Suddenly that momentum in space starts to become a part of yourself, you start sharing intimacy ,and you don’t realize why you started doing it. Intimidation , not at all, you feel comfortable doing it and you want to keep sharing and perhaps laughing or crying.

At the same time a voice inside your head tells you , i wish i could continue this and get this person to be part of my daily life , but you know that might be almost impossible,since there are geographical,social and more personal barriers.Plus you won’t be intense ,stalker-ish and ruin it .So you decide to enjoy the moment and put them in your Island Of Happiness.

This insular place is where in your mind treasure all the people that give you little peaces of joy during life. These persons don’t have to be present in your daily routine and as time goes by, if you keep letting yourself have this moments ,people might vanish in your brain; but at that circumstance you hold them close cause you had …ten perfect minutes.